Everyone’s brain works differently—and that’s a good thing. Some kids and teens have developmental disabilities, which may affect how they learn, communicate, move, or interact socially. But different does not mean less.

Here’s how YOU can help create a more inclusive and kind community:

1. Choose Kindness. Always!

Bullying, teasing, or excluding someone because they seem “different” can deeply impact their mental health.

Instead:

• Sit with them at lunch

• Invite them to join your group

• Speak up if you see someone being unkind

• Use respectful language

Kindness makes school safer for everyone.

2. Celebrate Strengths

Many people with developmental disabilities have incredible strengths—creativity, honesty, loyalty, memory skills, artistic talent, humor, and more.

Focus on what someone can do, not what they struggle with.

3. Learn Before You Judge

If someone:

• Needs extra time to answer

• Uses a device to communicate

• Avoids eye contact

• Gets overwhelmed by loud noise

It doesn’t mean they’re rude or unfriendly. It may mean their brain processes things differently.

Being informed helps you become a better friend and ally.

4. Ask, Don’t Assume

It’s okay to ask respectful questions like:

• “How can I help?”

• “Do you want to play?”

• “What do you like to do?”

Let them tell you what they need. Everyone deserves to have their voice heard.

5. Be a Bully Blocker

If you see bullying:

• Tell a trusted adult

• Stand next to the person being targeted

• Change the subject or redirect the situation

Being silent can allow harm to continue. Being brave protects others.